Five Mistakes to Avoid While Dating a Russian Woman
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This issue will be useful for each guy who is going to find a Russian bride. Read about 5 most common mistakes western men make with russian brides. The first tip is the most significant; others are also very important.
1. Transferring her dollars. Do not give your money to someone who you met via Internet. Remember that a true-hearted girl would not beg; she has enough self-esteem. Furthermore, she has already lived for more than twenty years without you. Why would she ask for your help now? Any Eastern European girl who asks you for currency is only trying to deceive you. An Eastern European woman does not even consider you two to be in a serious relationship until you have seen one another in person! Would you give cash to an American girl that you had just met? Think about it. It is just not reasonable and can bring you trouble (and makes the girls consider it is simple and encourages more of the same behavior).
2. Not questioning. You are looking for a life partner, not someone to simply spend the time. Russian girls are honest (for the most part) and they deserve the same attitude. Besides, if you do not question to learn more about her, her dreams etc… she will sooner or later decide that you are not serious. Then she will dump you, or just see what she can get out of you! If you are really looking for a wife, you need to ask her a lot of questions! Not only ask a lot of different questions, but ask them several times in different ways, just to see if you get proper answers (a good way to protect yourself from a scam).
3. Sending her wrong pictures. Don't give her pictures of your car or other prized possession. Otherwise, you will get the wrong type of girl. An ordinary girl from Russia is more interested in your soul than she is about your attainments. If you focus on your things, she may decide you are a shallow and not serious person. Concentrating on your possessions only will work on american girls, the most superficial and insecure girls in the world! This is not the US, there is no need to impress these women with a house and a car! Show them your personality, your preferences, what you think and feel and you'll find a appreciative life partner.
4. Not being prepared properly for a visit. Did you know that that you'll have to go to your lady in her country before bringing her to America as your fiancee? Yes, it is the only possible way she can get a visa to come to the USA. A Ukrainian woman, if she is family oriented, will need to meet you. You must be ready to travel to her country in the future. A woman will generally give you about 6 months to decide you will come. After that a few more months get ready. If you make her wait longer than this she will decide you are not serious and move on to someone she would think is more serious! Just be ready emotionally and monetarily.
5. Not thinking about plan B. It's a huge error! If you for all that go over to Russia or Ukraine, you never know what will wait for you there. Be ready to get some unexpected experiences! No matter how many letters you have written to your lady or how many times you talked to her on the phone, once you see her in real life, things will become different. Possibly you both look at each other and understand it will not work. Your backup plan will help you if it happens. And don't make a trip only for one lady (unless you have already met). Meet two or three. Also try to be on good terms with at least one of the local agencies in the city you are going to. Know their address and phone numbers. Later, if something unexpected happens, you will be able to contact the other service and meet other women.
Well, try to follow these tips and you will surely have luck with russian single women